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The CIA’s Secret Attraction Technique: How to Build Rapport
This lesson is going to explain an incredibly misunderstood and secret concept used by the CIA, the concept of rapport.
Rapport happens to be a most intragal part of your humaness. It just means having things in common, agreeing with the same thing: being on the same level or wavelength as the chick you’re yapping with.
Rapport happens when your subconscious mind realizes that the girl you’re talking with is on your side. Rapport is being in a state of cooperation, you definitely don’t want to neg or tease when you are in rapport with a girl.
So in the first five minutes of the conversation, I want you attracting the girl. Teasing her, push/pulling, flirting, misinterpreting, being playful etc…..
Once you do this and see she is attracted to you, then its time for rapport building.
The 2 kinds of conversational rapport are deep rapport and wide rapport.
Deep rapport is basically taking the conversation to a deeper level that is based on feelings. When you and the girl get into deep rapport, you’ve dug down to a super deep level of a certain conversational subject. If you want to get super deep rapport, always try to have the same “feelings” about the topic as the girl you’re talking to does.
Thats why its easy to create a deep rapport using “Sensory Language”.
Even if you happen to disagree on a topic, you still can acheive deep rapport by just agreeing on the overall feelings of the topic. .
For instance, I sometimes will ask the girl if she likes skiing or snowboarding better. No matter what her answer, i always disagree about what she says is the best sport, but I then agree with her that being atop the mountain is a great “feeling”.
On the other side of the coin, wide rapport just means having the same thoughts as the girl over a wide range of topics. This is why I LOVE learning a little about a lot of things!
If you are familiar with “Multiple Threading”, this is a great example of how you can accomplish wide rapport.
Getting wide rapport with a girl does not mean you agree with every single word she says, that will only make you a brown noser. The most efficient way to acheive this is to talk about the stuff you know something about and also think that she’ll be into at the same time. As an example, say your favorite band is the WHO and the chick is wearing a WHO shirt, you should bring this up!
Another technique for covert rapport building is known as “Pacing”. Pacing is basically deliberately copying someone elses body language and movements. Just makes the same gestures as she does, sit the same way, speak at the same pace etc, as long as you do this stuff without her knowing, she will sense a real connectin with you without knowing why. Really sneaky CIA type stuff!
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