How to Approach Ladies Easily-Stop Striking Out and Start Hooking Up
Are you curious about how those smooth talking pick up artists can collect a address book full of numbers from hot women while you seem to have no options? How would it feel to be able to achieve the results that other guys get so that you can increase your chances of meeting the woman who you honestly want to be with? You might be thinking that here is no way for you to ever become smooth with women in order to get more chances to date them. Well, if that is what you are after then reading this sarticle can get you into the game of dating beautiful women.
To begin with, you have to discover if you are a victim of the ‘nice guy’ disease. Ever wondered why the nice guys never get the girl and women are always dating ‘jerks?’ If so, then undoubtedly you have noticed something about these ‘jerks’: They are bold enough to pursue what they desire in regards to women. They are pursuing girls and they are getting them while you are tip toeing on eggshells trying to figure out if the woman is attracted to you or not. And that, my friend is the true reason that the ‘jerks’ are getting the results and you are dateless.
You see, the nice guy who showers a girl with attention and buys her gifts and invites her out to nice dinners is too sweet. Girls are searching for someone who they believe can shield them from the dangers out there in the world. When it comes to that, they would much rather find a man who is little rough around the edges than one who pees sitting down.
Women are stronger than you think and are capable of dealing with bold men quite well. It’s the easy going guys which they normally regard as ‘just friends’. After all, a ’nice’ guy is not going to be able to defend them and the offspring. What does it mean to be a little rough around the edges?
Well, it means that you maintain your identity with women and keep your own boundaries. If you truly wish to be with her, then go after her and don’t worry about being too bold in doing it. A woman is more apt to forgive your blunders if you demonstrate to her that you are not afraid to go after what you really desire.
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After you master these, we move on to the approaching strategy. Afraid of being rejected? Well, start thinking about what might happen if you never teach yourself to initiate conversations with the opposite sex: You will be left with the opportunities which are remaining once every other man is done choosing. You see, women have plenty of choices in regards to men, they are being hit on constantly. Why then, would they make the effort to increase their opportunities when they have plenty already?
That said, set yourself a ‘rejection quota’ and get in to the habit of approaching women. Don’t sweat it about what you you need to say to them, just say anything and start learning by seeing what gets responses and what does not. A lot of dudes get caught up in reading books and learning pick up lines which is nothing in compared to the experience. Better to get outside of yourself and get into the true experience of interacting with girls. After you do, you will learn VERY fast and save yourself a lot of energy.
And finally, accept the fact that you are scared of being rejected and start focusing your attention on confronting that fear by taking action against it. Here is what this will accomplish: After you make the approach, the fear will be gone as if it was not there at all in the first place. Then again, if you hesitate and ‘man I wish I could talk to her’ for the next ten minutes then you will have to deal with the anxiety the entire time. Better to squash it as soon as you can by taking action.
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Once you have committed to each of these steps you will see yourself getting a talent for how to initiate conversations with women. As soon as that happens you will discover that building rapport with a woman or even seducing her is less work than you thought. Good luck.