Archive for July, 2009
Do You Want A Girlfriend? Are You Missing This?
I know a lot of guys who have a lot of problems when it comes to attracting a girl to be their girlfriend.
How come this is the case?
Well I was baffled myself so I set out to discover why most guys had trouble getting a girlfriend.
After doing a lot of research and soul searching, I finally realized that the reason why most guys have no idea how to get a girlfriend was because of one important reason. This is unlike most skills in our lives, where we were trained as chlidren to excel at. Being successful with women was something never actually taught at all.
Most men who were able to get a girlfriend got their through rejection and learning the hard way.
In my opinion, this is unfair. Why are men expected to just know how to do something if this was never shown to them?
The majority of men out there really do not know how to properly get a girlfriend, and the ones who do, just sort of stumbled there. There will be a few dudes who will be able to include things in their personality that women find attractive, just naturally. But these are the lucky few.
What is the secret aspect of the personality do women naturally go for?
Inner game is the secret!
The men who can get women also have great inner game. This results in them having the confidence needed around women to convey the characteristics in their personality that make women like them.
The secret to getting a girlfriend is solid inner game.
How does one get the inner game need to land a girlfriend? You need to firstly deal with your own insecurities. Stop worrying about whether or not people will like your personality and just convey it. If you think you’re shy, don’t let that get in your way. Let me remind you, we are talking about your own love life and destiny. If you are experiencing problems with your body image. Get rid of these problems in you life. Do not just sit there staring at this monitor and complain about why your dating life sucks. You need to take positive proactive steps about it. If you start doing this in your life, you will see changes in your life. You will develop more self confidence and get better inner game so you will be able to get a girlfriend.
For more details about how to get a girlfriend, check out: How To Get A Girlfriend
Review of The Art of Approaching authored by Joseph Matthews
There’s been a lot of talk about The Art of Approaching.
Since the book promised to show men how to meet women, I just had to read it to find out for myself!
It was interesting to see that this ebook is the only one in the world that focuses on the topic of approaching women. For most guys, the biggest sticking point would be the approach, and this is very important for men who want to meet women.
I know how you feel, because it is hard to walk up to an attractive woman and approach her to start a conversation. I know you can imagine how it feels, think about it, your heart rate is jumping, the palms of your hands are becoming sweatier and your adrenaline is racing. Sounds like you are being sent into war I know!
The ebook, is a fantastic and comprehensive guide that will show you in detail how to open women. The book has several chapters and they include the topics relating to:
- The Art Of Body Language
- The Art Of Confidence
- The Art Of Approaching
- The Art Of Flirting
- The Art Of Storytelling
- The Art Of Being Social
Even though the book does cover other aspects of dating and seduction, the focus is mainly about the initial approach. Clearly I had no idea how complicated the topic of approaching women was until the author showed me in precise detail the mechanics involved.
I enjoyed the process whereby the author would show you how to directly open a woman. I like how the author points out 3 additional ways to approach women that I didn’t even know about. For example using indirect or situational conversational openers. The head and mental games you need to overcome when you are approaching women are also covered.
It’s good to see that Joseph Matthews used to be just another average frustated chump when it came to his dating life. Joseph Matthews used to be horrible with women too, so that’s why he knows how a guy would feel when they are faced with the prospect of the approach!
If you want to learn more about this book, why don’t you read my article about it: Buy Art of Approaching
Giving Up Your Relationship With Your Ex
Shawna Mason from Just Get My Ex Back shares what to do and spot an ailing relationship before it too late. Get your life back. You deserve it!
How to know when to end your relationship or give up getting your ex back? Why do you stick around with a hope that your relationship is going to get better by trying the next best thing or trying to win back your ex when some things are just not right. When do you really know that your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is not worth it? What are the warning signs, that you must pay attention to and if you find them, just shake off the dust off your ex and move on?
Warning Sign #1: Abuse
Run for your life if you find that you are dealing with psychological abuse, especially if you think it’s deliberate and not just the result of ignorance or insensitivity. Foret about your ex if he or she cuase you to fee guilty all the time, criticizes your looks, make you feel unnecessarily lousy on the inside or give you a mental torture. If you are always preparing for a defense, waiting for an attack, it can be very exhausting emotionally and will affect your self-esteem big time.
Run even faster if your ex had been abusive physically. Don’t think it is your fault. One in every three women is assaulted by her partner. Two of every three women who are physically abused after marriage had been abused while they were still dating.
Be certain that if you experience verbal abuse, followed by arrogant and unfounded insults; which leads to threats of physical violence, you know that your ex is NOT WORTH IT. Leave now. Leave now.
Warning Sign #2: Jealousy
Forget about the old fashion jealousy love that you need to be jealous to be wildly in love. Just accept it… LOVE IS NOT JEALOUS. It might feel flattering at first, but great jealousy is always a great problem.
If your ex is suspicious when you are being with your friends, or even your own family, eventually, if you tolerate his behaviour, you may start to live an obsecure life with nothing at all. A jealous lover is an angry lover.
If you think you can make him or her secure enough that your partner’s jealousy will subside, think again. Extreme jealousy, makes the other partner feel insecure, and it’s lethal for love.
Warning Sign #3: Unfaithfulness
Forget about your ex if he or she had been unfaithful to you. In fact, think twice if he is being unfaithful to someone else when he was with you, or if he was unfaithful to his previous partner - even if she forgave him! You may forgive… but you may never forget.
Stop blaming yourself if he cheated. It’s not you, it’s definitely him. The #1 reason why faithful men do not cheat on their partner is not only because of LOVE, but it is because of commitment to each other and remembering that “they promised”.
Ninety percent of American men say they believe affairs “are always or almost always wrong.” 1 in 4 do it silently anyway. Look for one of the other three!
Find out Ways To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back by clicking on the link.
Warning Sign #4: Liars
If your ex lies to you, just forget about him or her. Many times, you think the white lies to make the others feel it’s OK (ie. thanks I love the sweater) or to make you feel good (ie. I’m a sensitive kind of guy).
Learn how to spot liars… it is difficult to an extent. Be alert and if you feel that you partner seems to good to be true, probably he is.
Warning Sign #5: (Perpetually) Unemployed or needy
If your ex is a bump and gets fired from his job again and again. It’s not about the money but it’s about playing well with others. Maybe he is thinking he is having some bad luck. Of course, but could he be unappreciated time and again. And, most of the time, he is probably depressed, full of anger and low in self-esteem. I guess you could stick with him but you don’t really need a needy person, you know.
What I’m saying here is if you know your ex is needing help, money, support, encouragement ALL THE TIME, he or she is sucking your life away. He is too self-centered to be in a relationship in the first place. So, say your goodbyes and run.
Just think about it, no need to cry and whine for your ex back. He or she is not worth it if they fall in any of these categories.
If you still think your Ex is still worth it… Get some advice by clicking here: Get My Ex Back where Shawna Mason shares what to do and spot an ailing relationship. Make sure you sign up for her 6-part mini course which has helped thousands! Take care.